Suppose $x$ is the quantity, and you want it to decay to $\frac{1}{2}$ after $n$ discrete steps (whether they be minutes, hours, days, years, eons, or nanoseconds), and you want to model that by multiplication by $r$.
You start with $x$. After one time interval, you want to have $rx$. After two time intervals, you want $r(rx) = r^2x$. After three time intervals, $r(r^2x)=r^3x$. After $n$ times intervals, $r^nx$. Since you want $r^nx = \frac{1}{2}x$, you can now solve for $r$.
This is discrete decay, though, not continuous decay. It is exactly analogous to the difference between continuous interest compounding, and interest compounding in discrete time intervals. "Half-life" is a term usually reserved for continuous decay, so you'll want to be careful with that.